I am fortunate to have a small following of fans. For me a fan is a person who has read both Murphy’s Troubles and Out of Darkness. I even have a few fans that don’t want to purchase my books on Amazon but purchase them directly from me because it’s more personal and of course I always write something in the cover and sign it. Please understand, I don’t have many that fall into this restricted definition of a fan. Of those that are fans, I listen to them when they comment on each book.
Two of my fans have made the exact same, surprising comment. They feel that Out of Darkness concentrates too much on Ian’s love life. One fan thought that Ian was too amorous and that Irish men don’t behave that way (this fan is 100% Irish male). Another fan said there was just too much sex in the book. Really? Too much sex? Trust me; this book is not 50 Shades of Grey. I did want to show how a middle age man can fall deeply in love with a woman of the same age and how their life experiences mold the unique love they develop. Certainly one aspect of a love relationship is physical intimacy and I didn’t want to avoid that in my book. To be honest, I don’t like writing sex scenes. I once took a class at UW Madison Continuing Education on how to write a sex scene in a novel. It’s not about body parts; it’s about intimacy, sharing, innocence, vulnerability, laughter, joy, etc. etc. I also wanted to demonstrate in Out of Darkness that having an honest, open, empathetic love relationship was healing and helps Ian fight his depression. Love brings balance and a new perspective into Ian’s life. It’s not about the sex but good sex is a part of any healthy, balanced, loving, relationship. What is most curious to me is that these comments came from men. Who would have guessed?
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